Whats up Luckey,
Luckey is it me or do gay men look for sex and hope to land a boy friend at the same time. Its like most gay men is looking for a physical attraction first then after the sex or shit even before the sex in some cases, u already know that past the sex yaw don't really got shit in common then it's back to the drawing board. This process is so tiring Luckey. I think all men have high sex drives i know i do because all i think about is sex all day. In my phone i be on every porn site watching amateur porn all day. I love sex and i want one partner but i dont know how to think with my big head when it comes to men. I dont know how to get past the physical until after the first nut. I feel like how do i meet a guy and really get to know them before sex. Because gay men are so pogramed for sex that some men dont even think u like them if u not fucking in the first ten minutes. Im so confused. Most gay couples i talk too love everything about each other physically first then at the end they might throw in funny or smart too. Lol. Then u look at straight couples and see the oddest happy couples. I be thinking how the hell did that person get that person.Then In gay land its the ugly with the ugly, the fats with the fats and ugly and the pretty with the pretty. And the average dudes is all alone because they dont want the fats and ugly, they think they can do better then average, and the pretty dont want them because they not pretty. And then u got the pimps, the hoes, and the suggar daddys. How is a Black gay man really able to find love past physical attraction and sex. I want that deep connection i don't care if u look like a frog. but if u dont get my dick hard I dont know how to stick around to see if u cool or not. Im not ashamed of my high sex drive. Im not ashamed of loving men physical parts. Sex is apart of life. But how do i look past the sex. how can i get through the process with out sex. Should I have a sex buddy while i look?? But will that be fair to who im dating?. Will who im dating have a sex partner?? Will i be cool with that. How long should u wait!? Can sex be good if u into a person mentally but not Physically?? And can u have both a mental and physical attraction and not get bored with each other??