My thoughts on the urban gay adult industry..
I am over it. I swear when I ventured into this adult entertainment business, I was a little green as what to expect. Since then, I have learned so much about what really goes on in the business. The last couple of months have been VERY interesting…
If I repeated some of the mess that has either been told to me or I have seen with my own eyes, I would single-handedly set the industry on fire. I swear it was never my intention for it to be that way but over time I felt that the world needed to know what really goes on behind the scenes.
For one, these models are making pennies on the dollar and working like slaves just to make ends meet. You hear about porn 'stars' going in and out of jail and you think to yourself…
Why are they homeless and trickin' on the street while their videos are viral on Pornhub and Myvidster? (Piracy could play a factor!)
Not to mention they escorting on the side and dancing in these seedy ass clubs….but I will get to that mess later!
Gay men of color are on the bottom of the totem pole when it comes to the adult industry. Very few black men make it in the mainstream gay porn industry and a lot of them don't stay there long. The white are very particular as to who they will hire and if you don't fit the stereotypical look, they don't give a damn about you. They won't even talk about you on their blogs unless it is to worship your big black dick!
It's not uncommon to see a former mainstream exclusive model stoop down to make videos for some random urban studio and take a severe pay cut! I am not talking about everybody but there are a majority of people that I look at with a serious sideye. Even if they are rubbing elbows with the white boys, it's with a price.
The last letter I got really floored me. The rise of so many models getting into barebacking is quite disturbing and these studios don't even give a damn about it. All they care about is money.Pretty soon, safe sex videos will be the minority of gay porn. That scares me…
I was really shocked to hear that a lot of these 'stars' are not even paid revenue and residuals from their movies. Everybody (including bloggers like me) are making money off their videos except them (with the exception of the few dollars they make initially). This is not ALL model but most of them!
To be in this shady ass industry, you gotta have a keen business sense. If you don't know how to talk business and treat yourself as a brand, you will be fucked from day one. You gotta keep your friends to a mininum because the ones, who you think are 'family' are the very ones who come to bloggers like me and spill ALL of your tea! They smile in your face and pretend to defend you but as soon as you turn the other cheek, they are running to me to tell all your business.
Not to mention, with social media these porn 'stars' tell on themselves. They fighting on twitter, spilling the tea on who has what disease (even though they all have fucked each other on film)! They posting pictures of them partaking in hardcore party drugs and alcohol. Long story short, they are acting a hot ass mess and the 'fans' live for every moment!
Let me tell you the TRUTH…
These fans pay their money to see you fuck. They don't care about your personal life. They don't care what you feeling. They ain't trying to relate to you. They either want to be you or fuck you. Stop using them as your support system!
And then there are these street prostitutes who are getting into the business…
The druggies and the fuck boys who trickin' on Cypress street or Adam4adam. I am over that mess. Where do you find these people? I get it…they just want to fuck and support their habits so you hire them, clean them up, give them drugs and let them fuck each other down while you record? I AM OVER THAT SHIT!
Where are the decent whores? The high price players? Who tricks off Adam4adam these days? What ever happen to having your own xxx website? These boys are making 150 a client and that's a good night. Keep in mind, men do not have pussies and pussy is power…..pussy is uber expensive. Not to mention you are of color so they ain't going to pay too much to fuck you.
And then there are the 'adult entertainment' clubs. Let me go on the record to say that there are some decent adult entertainment clubs in the US. But there are a lot of them who pay these boys pennies just to strip buck naked. One club in particular pay each dancer between $35- $50 dollars on average plus tips. Not to mention, you have 15-25+ dancers dancing in one giving night. They ain't making no real money!!! At most a couple of grand..and that's if you are popular at the moment and you have to constantly travel from state to state! You gotta give them that 'private session with a happy ending' just to make decent money.
And then you have the fans who come to me talking about how they want to fuck ___________. I want to slap the DNA out of them…….
If you only knew the TRUTH….Keep your dick and your ass in your pants if you value your health. Stay away from these fuck boys of today! I want to STRESS that I am not talking about everybody but if you offended or feeling some type of way, I am talking to you..
It's freakin' disgusting and SAD.
Keep in mind, I have only scratch the surface. I am keeping it cute for ya!
What even messed up is I don't even know if I want to even reccomend any of my starz to get into this business. If you are so determine, I suggest the amateur route and start up your own shit! Run your own business! Stay away from the bullshit and keep to yourself. Put a price on your own content and keep it moving.
All that glitter, ain't gold. You can leave your unbrellas at home because it ain't rainy over here…