Remember the dude who spilled the tea on the big booty Tina addicted thug? Well he is back with round two and it is even more juicy! Check it out after the jump and make sure you post your thoughts in the comment section!
Last week I got on adam on Thursday evening to find a like-minded masculine dude who was into a NSA session. I met this guy Cortez aka IMDAPARTY. We talked for a few and he was eager to link up. He came over and we did our thing. We chilled, blazed and had what I thought was a good time.
After a couple of hours he left. But returned a few minutes later asking me what my plans were for the evening. I told him nothiing, and he suggested that I come to his house and chill. Im farely new to ATL so dont know the area. He told me he lived on McDaniel St (Luckey's note: In the West End area). which I now have discovered is a very seedy part of town. Initially I was interested. In the art of full disclosure, I am a apple products guy. Anything apple I own. Mac book. iPod, iPad, etc. Cortez suggested that I bring my mac so we can watch movies because he didnt own a computer.
After a quick shower we were off or so I thought. He had "helped" me by packing my bag and we headed to his car. Once inside his vehicle I realized I had left my wallet in my house. My ininitial thought was to take my stuff with me, but he found that odd, and began to talk me out of my common sense. He assured me wouldn't steal my shit because A. we'd been spending a nice grip of time together. And B. To make me feel better he backed his dark gray Kia SUV to my door in an attempt to prove he wasn't shady. I got out his car. Ran to my apt door. I was in and out all of 12 seconds. When I went outside Cortez was gone and with all my stuff.
Bubbling with anger I attempted to call Cortez but he wouldn't pick-up. I had no choice but to call the police. When the police arrived and I told them my story they chastised me, rightfully so. Apparently they have hundred of thousand of cases in the Metro ATL area on behalf of Adam4Adam. The officer stated to me that I wasn't robbed more so a victim of theft. The officer reinforced my story that I basically allowed a stranger into my home and he walked away with your stuff. I could file a report, but it woudldnt do much good b/c this is more a civil "he said, he said". Without proof of theft I was basically shit out of luck.
I than began to reach out via text to Cortez to get my shit back and this is the text message convo that occured:
Theres more convo but to save time I gave the most important. This nicca not only came into my house and walked away with my stuff but then held my shit for 400 bucks. Extortion on adam. WTF? Seeing my MAC has highly sensitive info on it leaving it out there in the world was not an option. The damage would have far exceeded 400 in the wrong hands. My main goal was getting it back.
I met up with someone Cortez sent at a gas station to get my shit back. While beating they're ass was on my main frontal lobe, im so discreet and private that a big ordeal was not of interest me. At the end of the day it was my fault and I couldnt blame anyone for my stupidity. Unfortunately Cortez didnt hold up his side of the deal. I was only returned my mac pro, but the ipad and ipod were not returned. However when I got my mac it seems IMDAPARTY was logged into his adam4adam account on my computer and forgot to log out. Attached are pics from his email which shows that minutes after stealing my property he began trying to hock it to anyone on adam.
Reading this I now realize how stupid I was. I wasn't thinking clearly and maybe my size and ego wouldnt allow me to believe that someone would be so brazen to rob someone like myself. But alas it happened. My goal in sharing this info with you is to act as a cautionary tale. Adam4Adam, and I assume the other hookup sites, though I can speak for them, has become a very dangerous place. Not only do I now no longer feel comfortable having anyone in my home I don't know. But, its becoming abundantly clear that the internet is no longer –maybe never was– a safe place to meet other bruthas.
It's funny how we as black people have such a disdain for white folk, yet white people have never come into my home and extorted me for my own property. Thats a black man all day. I am done with adam. and definitely done with dealing with my folk for a minute. While I know there are good people online, and this is only my second bad experience in at least 12 years of dealing with online folk, there's a lot of seedy, treacherous people who's goal each day is to link up with unsuspecting people and get whatever they can however they can.
And to know the police either dont want to get involved or wont depending on the officer leaves a victim helpless and alone.My hope is that my story saves someone else. At the end of the day Im grateful it didnt end as badly as it could have. I could have been dead — you just dont know with people these days.
But I thought I'd share with you all my horrible Adam4Adam experience. Remember people hundreds of thousands of cases reported by victims here in ATL. And there's nothing anybody can do to help you. The only person who can help you is YOU. Listen to your inside voice. If you have hesitation DONT DO IT. period. Fuck how cute.
UPDATE- SHIT just got REAL! A second 'victim' has stepped forward….
UPDATE- The suspect speaks….
(You can tell by the grammar and such, who is who….)
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