Hey sweetie pie! How have you been? Hopefully all is well with you. The site is looking nice, mine is too. You should check it out sometime at JustPlainFamous.com. Anyway, this time I’m emailing you about my 2 year hiatus from sex & relationships and establishing platonic friendships with straight men.
So, it’s been 2 years since my last sexual encounter & relationship with a man and ever since the beginning of this year I’ve been feeling the pressure from my peers about it. I’ve completely abandoned my sex life now and started to have that “typical man emotion” of shying away from monogamous commitment with someone. My priorities has shifted since I’m nearing my 30’s. My friends are now saying that “you deserve to be happy” and so on. My question for you is can life be prosperous without feeling the need to connect yourself to someone? Because so far, I’ve been feeling damn good & feel irritable when someone tries to disturb that.
As far as establishing platonic friendships with straight men; its mind boggling. I’ve met this straight man who thought I was a woman (I know) I told him I’m not and been cool ever since but after talking with him for a short while; every time we talked it was about my sexuality so, I ditched him without a notice until we bumped into each other via social media and laid it out on the table. I told him that he made me feel uncomfortable because me being gay was a topic of discussion or joked about every time & he felt as if I was trying to have sex with him when I never hinted that but he would say things like “if I was your type I’ll fuck with you”. So here’s my question for you if you have straight male friends; was it a task to establish friendships with em? If so, how’d you handle it?