Dear Luckey: I Am Attracted To Men But Not Gay Sex…

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Dear Luckey,

So I know I am sexually attracted to men but I am discovering I don’t like having sex with men. I know it sounds weird but I just have not had a sexual experience with a guy that makes me want to do it again. At first I thought it was the guys but I think its me, I just don’t enjoy it. During, and after, sex I just feel like “this wasn’t worth it.” I’m still trying to make sense of this, any ideas of what this means? P.S. Love your blog.

Best,

Sean

This picture is for illustrative purposes. Model is unknown but damn sexy..

Dear Sean,

I am not a professional of sexual health (I don’t have the “paper”), but I think I can relate to your situation. I haven’t had sex or been intimate with another man in over two years. I have not been in an exclusive relationship in over ten years. Over the years, I sowed few oats and fucked quite a few dudes just because I was horny (or needed to feel validated) and that came to a halt after a STD scare. Although I still get horny, I don’t feel the desire to have sex with anyone. It used to fuck with me deeply. Not so much today with the way the world is.

I feel like this, you don’t have to have sex with people if you are not feeling it. You don’t owe anyone an explanation. Whatever you are feeling today is your business. We all got our own journey. I love myself enough to know that I don’t have to give myself over to someone who really is not for me just to catch a nut. You gotta be careful who you share your energy with. Some day I would love to be dicking down my husband but right now I am living my life on my own terms. In the meantime I rather keep it to myself.

Nothing wrong with that. Don’t beat yourself up about. Just enjoy the process..

Luckey

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